Yesterday was a big day o’ Fail. Can I just name it that for the rest of time? August 26th, 2009 can now officially be, the day of fail. Let me start at the beginning and you all can decide if I can claim this.

-Tuesday night, well really Wednesday morning, I sleep from midnight until about 1:30am when the baby started screaming. After finally getting Harrison back to sleep at 2:00am, I fell asleep about 3:15am and managed to sleep until 4:30am when he woke up again. At the time I thought he must be teething. He had a low grade fever and was generally just a big ole mess. I finally got him back to sleep, but then I couldn’t sleep and laid awake looking a the ceiling until Logan’s alarm went off at 6:30am. (We really need to paint our ceiling.)

-After taking the girls to school, where I ended up yelling at them both for things that most days I would have ignored, I went to Starbucks to get my coffee. Unfortunately, I grabbed the wrong coffee cup. Got home before I took a sip of it (What? It’s a weird thing of mine. That first sip of coffee is the best.) and realized it was some nasty vanilla and raspberry flavored caramel machiato  or something. I have no idea what it was really, but it’s not coffee. I did the only thing a coffee addicted woman could do. I strapped my crying son back in his car seat and drove back to Starbucks for a new coffee.

-I pulled out a dining room chair, to sit down and pay some bills, only to completely smash it down on my foot. The bruise is killer and I swear to you, I must have bruised the bone.

-I called my mom to ask her what time her flight came in on Thursday, the day before Labor Day, so I could make sure I had someone to pick up the girls from school that day. She was all confused. Turns out, I had my holiday days confused. Labor Day is a Monday holiday, not a Friday holiday. So instead of my husband and I getting a much needed two day vacation, while both of our mother’s keep our kids at our house, we will be hanging out at home with our kids and both of our mother’s. I had completely booked the wrong two days away. It being a…you know, holiday weekend, now there is not place nice to stay. We’ll still have a fun weekend and maybe even get a date night, but still, we needed that time away together.

-Last but certainly not least is my sick baby boy. About four yesterday afternoon I realized that Harrison wasn’t getting any better. In fact he was getting worse. He was lethargic, grouchy and basically a crying sad little smooshy heap on my lap. When I took his temperature, I found that is was 102. I did what any good mom does, I asked the advice of the lovely Twitter peeps. My question was should I take him to Urgent care. The answers were amazing. I have a love/hate relationship with Twitter these days. However I appreciate everyone who answered me last night. You guys were awesome. I hadn’t even considered alternating Tylenol and Motrin. It’s funny how a four year gap in between my last two kids, has made me forget some things. Although, honestly I’m not sure I ever knew that one. Morgan can’t tolerate Tylenol. It’s like giving her speed or something. Makes her jump out of her skin. Bailey can’t tolerate Motrin. I was thinking that Tylenol just wasn’t working on him. But I think it does, I just think it wasn’t capable of making him magically better last night. Ha. (Thank you big time to my friendly Internet Pediatrician for the helpful fever advice. Truly, no one has ever explained fevers that way to me before.)

I decided to go with my mama gut and take him in.  Which was a good decision since my ear thermometer is crap. The boy had a freaking 103.8 temp when we got there. Two antibiotics (one inner and two outer ear infections and possible tonsillitis) and some Motrin later and his fever started to go down.

-After I put the baby down and got the girls settled, Logan and I sat down to watch Top Chef, which we had DVR’d. We were ten minutes into it, when I hit some button and deleted it. Now, I have it sitting on there again already, since it was showing again late last night. But still, come on now. Really?

Today, is better. This morning, Harrison is doing a bit better. I slept extraordinarily well, since I slept in the guest room, while Logan was on baby duty. I needed sleep. I can not tell you how much, I needed sleep. The girls both seem to be fine, although I will be Lysoling our house and changing sheets and toothbrushes today, just to be on the safe side. Oh and today, there was donuts for breakfast. But oh boy yesterday just sucked.

What do you think? Does yesterday qualify for the day of fail?

30 Responses to The day of FAIL

  • Lu says:

    Oh man Issa, yesterday def. was sucky! I am glad you went with your mama gut, it is always right. Glad things are better today. What can go wrong after donuts?
    .-= Lu´s last blog ..Follow Friday =-.

    Issa Reply:

    @Lu, Donuts, do make the world a better place.

  • PrincessJenn says:

    Oh wow! You really did have an award winning crap day yesterday. Huge hugs to you. And I hope today is much better.
    .-= PrincessJenn´s last blog ..How To Keep Your OCD child Busy =-.

  • becky says:

    omg i hate days like that. and it’s like wtf? how does it happen that EVERYTHING happens all at once? ((HUGS)) glad today is better.
    .-= becky´s last blog ..It has been decided =-.

  • Oh, my heart goes out to you. What a day. Certainly NOT a fail on your part, just one of those days that we have in life. It seems like it never rains but it pours over here too. But, today is a new one. You are a great mother. You are a human being and get tired and cranky and overwhelmed, just like the rest of us! Give yourself a break here.

    I am so glad your little one is feeling better. I have a four year gap between my two too and they are all so different and you forget really quickly all the tricks you learned with the first.

    I hope today is much better. If it helps, I’ve had several months that read like your yesterday and it is getting better. There is always some gift in the day. For me today, it was a Starbucks coffee without any flavours! That would have sent me over the edge!

    Have a non-eventful, peaceful day and week! You are a great mama. Don’t forget it!
    Tricia :)

    Issa Reply:

    @Tricia (irishsamom), Thank you. It is strange, that huge gap. Is almost like starting over. It comes back to you, but still.

  • Alissa says:

    At lest your foot isn’t broken.
    At least you got meds for the baby and he’s getting better.
    At least your show recorded again.
    At least you’ll get to see your Mama.
    At least you eventually got the right coffee.

    sorry to be little miss sunshine…delete this if you’re not in the mood. i’m trying to have a positive outlook.

    ((hugs) Issa…call anytime if you need to chat…

    Issa Reply:

    @Alissa, No, friend, I kinda liked this. :) Positive is good.

  • Angela says:

    Sounds like a day of bad luck.
    - Wrong coffee, bummer! I ALWAYS check before I leave because I’m too picky and it’s FAR to our Starbucks.
    - Thermometer issue – totally not your fault.
    - Sick baby boy – ehh, not much you could have done except what you did. You COULD have said, oh, he’ll be fine and stayed up and ended up in the ER at midnight with an even higher fever.
    -DVR issues? We all have them. I managed to stop my mom’s soap opera from recording yesterday and had to make a quick save so she didn’t think the darn thing was broken again.

    Glad you got sleep and that the baby is doing better. Hopefully today will be a better luck day.
    .-= Angela´s last blog .. =-.

  • shelliwazzu says:

    Yesterday did suck. But you made it through and that is success!~ Glad little one will be on the road to recovery! Oh, and the Tylenol Motrin thingy? It’s termed “piggybacking” in my pedes office! So cute!

  • Insta-Mom says:

    Be careful…now Bailey will be intentionally spreading germs to Harrison so she can have donuts for breakfast every day. ;-)

    Hugs, my friend. Big huge hugs. Wish I could take you out for a cup of coffee myself. Although we’d have the whole Coffee Bean/Starbucks debate, and it would turn all ugly, so maybe we should just settle for going out and getting boozy together. M’kay?
    .-= Insta-Mom´s last blog ..Depression redux =-.

    Issa Reply:

    @Insta-Mom, Starbucks. Starbucks. Starbucks. ;)

  • Sandy says:

    I think, definitely, yes… “Day of Fail” par excellence! Not your fault at all, you coped remarkably well. Feet up, be kind to yourself… lots of love x

  • Man, that is one gigantic day of suck. Glad the little guy is feeling better now though. Its scary as hell when babies get sick. Way to trust the mama instinct.
    .-= The Grown Up Teenager´s last blog ..For your blogging pleasure =-.

  • BLARGH that is a horribly sucky no good terrible day for sure.

    So glad today is better. How is Harrison doing now?
    .-= MommyGeekology´s last blog ..To sleep, perchance to dream. =-.

    Issa Reply:

    @MommyGeekology, Well he just dumped a huge bag of dog food all over my kitchen, if that gives you any clue. :)

  • Debby Pucci says:

    That was a pretty bad day but I always like to say that “things can always be worse.” I think back over the years of raising my kids and I think I have had way too many of those days! Glad your son is better. Don’t you just love having the DVR, I can remember having 3 VCR’s going to catch everything I needed to tape! It seemed as if every year when we went on vacation some storm would come through, knock the power out, and I would have nothing taped. At least the DVR’s come back without lost information!
    .-= Debby Pucci´s last blog ..EXTRA – EXTRA – READ ALL ABOUT IT ! =-.

    Issa Reply:

    @Debby Pucci, VCR? What do those letters mean? I don’t comprehend.

  • Kari says:

    Yup. You win the Fail award for yesterday. I’m so sorry…it sounds like it can only go up from here!!!

    xoxoxo

  • You didn’t fail, just had an off day. It happens my dear! Sorry baby boy isn’t feeling well…glad you took him in. Hope today is a better day for sure!
    .-= Stephanie (MarvelousMoM)´s last blog ..Coffee Drinkers =-.

  • AmazingGreis says:

    Sorry your day SUCKED, I think it’s something in the air. LOL

    My Tuesday really sucked and yesterday was nothing to write home about.

    Hope the rest of the week and weekend are uneventful!!!
    .-= AmazingGreis´s last blog ..GE you failed me… =-.

  • Capital Mom says:

    I sure hope so. I don’t think you need to go through a day worse than that.
    I hope he feels better soon.

  • Heather says:

    I’ve come to the conclusion that August has just basically sucked the life out of everyone.
    I’m sorry about the baby and your foot and your coffee—and I totally help the antibiotics are kicking in and you’ve started to feel better about the world.
    .-= Heather´s last blog ..Rainy Days and Thursdays…. =-.

  • Kirsten says:

    You know what the worst part was?? The wrong coffee.

    :-)
    .-= Kirsten´s last blog ..0, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7 =-.

    Issa Reply:

    @Kirsten, See, I knew you’d understand. The wrong coffee just makes the day a horrible place. ;)

  • tracey says:

    Just think: today can ONLY be better, right?

    The coffee thing SUCKS but the worst was definitely the loss of that weekend away… Damn. Can you guys just leave in the wee hours and not come home until late? Or bring some blankets and make out in the car?
    .-= tracey´s last blog ..A little bit of this, a little bit of that… =-.

    Issa Reply:

    @tracey, We will plan something, for sure. It just sucks. Plain and simple, it sucks. But whatever. The world keeps moving right?

  • anymommy says:

    Yeah, that sucks my darling. I am glad to read in the comments that your baby boy is on the mend. I can’t believe he is speeding towards his first birthday. And girlfriend, you know I almost had a heart attack for you when I read about the wrong coffee thing.
    .-= anymommy´s last blog ..I Wish the Real World Would Just Stop Bothering Matt =-.

  • I’m a few days late but wanted to say that I hope your day of Fail didn’t turn into a weekend of Fail. Hope things are much, much better now!
    .-= Fairly Odd Mother´s last blog ..Cape Co-ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!-d =-.

  • Jennifer says:

    I hate those days where everything little thing just seems to go wrong. Hope you’re son is feeling better and that you had a much better weekend!
    .-= Jennifer´s last blog ..Babies Feeding Babies =-.

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